Domestic duties? What roles doe men and women take on today?

Leslie Blanco/Staff Writer

Gender. Male. Female. What roles are assigned thus? Has much changed in this day and age? Men have always been viewed as the breadwinners, powerful leaders, executors of action, and free to express their creativity in outlets such as writing, art, music and theater without ridicule. What about the roles assigned to their female counterparts? The duties of women were confined to the domestic space: raising children, taking care of household affairs and grooming their young daughters to find husbands.

Women were and still are viewed to be mothers, nurturers, household caretakers and caregivers. Despite the strides we’ve seen women make today to get equal pay, (although it’s still 77 cents on the dollar), secure jobs, and to have the freedom to work in fields that are predominately male dominated–women are still doing more work than ever. Their second jobs consist of the household chores and “duty” of raising children.
Not only do women give birth and are obligated to raise kids, despite their efforts in securing a job equated to their male spouses, they seem to still carry the burden of doing domestic work such as cleaning and cooking too. Seems fair right? In this day and age of “modern progressiveness” gender roles and stereotypes are still prevalent despite the victory and strides that we’ve achieved in securing a place in the work force, despite the gender disparity in certain fields, women still end up doing more work over all.

A sociologist at the University of California, Irvine, Judith Treas explains that despite these roles being a personal choice between couples living together in their domestic spaces, society and culture do play a role in shaping how these roles are divided up.
More and more women in today’s modern age have education equal to their male counterparts, even more so in some cases. Studies have shown that more and more women are going to college and getting degrees compared to men.

Many people believe that women have this “innate nature to nurture,” due to the world’s cultural society but men are also nurturers.
The difference is that men are taught since birth or from their own cultures to suppress their ability to nurture or to show emotion.

Men and women are human beings when it comes down to it – harboring both masculine and feminine qualities. It is indoctrinated in our culture and society for it to be this way and for women to stay home and take on most of the domestic work. This is where problems stem when dividing up the duties between the sexes pertaining to domestic work.

Last year, studies have shown that on an average day, 83 percent of women and only 65 percent of men spent some time doing household activities such as housework, cooking, lawn care, or financial and other household management. Statistics show that men are more likely to participate in sports, exercise, or recreation on any given day with 21% of men participating versus 16% of women.
However, it doesn’t stop there – according to Time magazine, in a 2010 data study, 60% of women in the U.S. are either the sole income earner of their household or bringing in as much or more than their partners. It is evident that even today, women are still being regarded as the main caregiver and the primary household caretaker as opposed men.

The U.S. has no federal requirement for mothers to get paid maternity leave. It is entirely at the company’s discretion whether they get paid maternity leave and some are even at risk for losing their jobs if they miss a certain number of days of work. America is the only country in the world aside from Papua New Guinea who offer no paid maternity leave to new mothers.

Businesses are valued over humanity. This is ironic because the person who brings human beings into the world in order to work in businesses are mothers. Despite their struggle to keep their jobs or to have jobs equal to men–the moment women get pregnant they are penalized and at risk of losing their jobs for having a child.

This baffles me the most because even though I don’t have any children or a house of my own, let alone a life partner, I simply don’t want to live a life where I am pressured, burdened, and subjugated into these roles because it is my “womanly duty” to take on domestic roles. If my partner and I decide to have children I would by no means be confined or let myself be confined to the role of the sole caretaker, nurturer, cook or cleaner.

Taking care of the household is a shared responsibility – especially if both parents work and have careers of their own. Men shouldn’t mind or feel threatened by taking on the role of caretaker for their kids. It is a human emotion to feel nurturing, whether you are a male or a female; otherwise known as being a considerate human being when you can share and divide domestic duties between couples – especially when you become parents.

1 Comment on "Domestic duties? What roles doe men and women take on today?"

  1. Sergio Alamisso | September 22, 2020 at 9:02 AM | Reply

    Iam Sérgio Alamisso I’m 23 years old and Iam Mozambican.well I loved too much the article i think it helped me in my life,.
    I would like to know if is possible .Why is not possible woman to take a care of her husband if he is unworker? While if it is a man working can take care of her wife??

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